जिंदगी में अकेले रह जाने पे क्या क्या होता है
Why do I think about what happens when one is alone in life?
Because, last week, on Sunday, I was travelling in a bus to reach a village from where we had to start our route for trekking on a mountain. We stopped 30 minutes before the final distance for taking breakfast and going to the toilets.
Environment was pleasant but I noticed that our bus was not full with our fellow travellers. Many of them were not attending this trek. Why?
I asked one of the group coordinators to know the reason. He told me today is "Father's day", therefore, most of them decided to stay with their kids rather than go trekking. It's good that people are celebrating Father's Day.
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Then, suddenly, one person asked me if I was the father of a kid. I replied to him negatively. Then the person asked me if I had a pair. I replied to him negatively. Then the person replied to me that I am lucky that I don't have this responsibility.
The question is whether the person passed a comment on me or really expressed his view.
Moreover, I faced this question many times and I have to answer.
Sometimes people make fun of me and sometimes people make a different face showing pity on me.
I notice it perfectly and I have to avoid the situation turning the talk on any other subject since I am good at driving the talk towards other issues.
Many questions are asked or people give suggestions or they tell what is going to happen with me in future.
Few of my friends consider that my life is wasted and my life will suffer in future because I am running beyond the schedule.
Everything has its own schedule in life and it must happen under its own schedule, not beyond the schedule.
Should I have to give an answer to the above question? Yes, because many consider that I am responsible for it, not the circumstances that drive one´s life or family.
Now I have learnt to avoid the question by keeping a deep silence on the question.
Yes, I feel it later on. Why me? Why do I have to face the question? Someday I will break my silence? All these questions of my life are in front of me and asking me an answer and I don't have any answer.
Does it happen in your life? Comment section is open for you to write your opinion & publish with this article.
I enjoy watching shorts of a YouTube channel and the channel owner always shows the situation of what happens when one is alone in life but gives a funny twist to video creations. Many times I agree with the message and laugh thinking that I am in that situation.
Another side of life is also not very pleasant because many people with pairs are not very happy and they think that their life is wasted because they don´t live for themselves.
Anything can happen but I will keep drinking my coffee & you can <buy a coffee ☕ for me>. Use QR code for buying. It's very easy.
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