Bald therefore rejected from marriage
We read several articles published on this issue on the internet.
One article was very interesting but with sad news that a techi intelligent guy ended his life due to this reason.
Another
was a bride cancels her marriage at the last moment on marriage day
when
she finds her husband-to-be is a bald man. Her parents & parents of
the groom suggested she change her opinion but she did not change &
her groom returned home without marriage. In many cases, the rejected
groom married another girl in the same marriage ceremony.
A
boy in his marriage age has been rejected more than 100 times because
he was having severe hair loss problems & probably he will become bald soon.
A bride rejected a groom from
marriage considering that the groom would become bald in future because the father & brothers of the groom are bald.
Baldness appears due to many factors. Two of the most important factors are genetic structure & stress.
Genes
are transferred from parents to kids, & that's why we have few
characteristics of our parents. Our looks, face structure (nose, head
frontal area, ears, lips, chin, chicks), body colour, hairs & many
other characteristics are partially similar either to our mother or
father. People normally say that a person is a son or daughter of that
person because similarities between next generations & their parents
are easily recognizable.
Sometimes, similarities with grandparents also appear.
Stress is also an important factor because it generates hormonal imbalance in the body, thus, it can ignite the hair loss mechanisms.
Unstressfull
lifestyle is very important but most people live stressed in their
adult age, therefore, hair loss starts to appear after the 40s. At a young
age, very few become bald.
We
know people whose father & brothers are not bald but the guy
becomes bald at his young age. It is a clear example of a stressful
lifestyle that has an
impact on hairs. Genes also play a big role in baldness, of course.
The
bride rejected the groom because she considered that the genes of the
parents would provoke hair loss of the groom someday & the groom
finally became bald.
There are many
published news & articles, & stories told by people of different
societies. But the reality is that all these incidents happen depending
on territory or
a social structure with which both, bride & groom, belong. All the
above incidents happened in India as we read in newspapers.
Asian countries are more traditional in this respect. In
our country what is the situation? You can write in the comment section
or you can send us by email & we will publish it with this article.
Now,
if you move towards the west, in Western countries, girls don't mind whether
their husbands have hairs on their heads or not. Some of them informed
us they trim hairs of their husbands, & few of them shaved hairs of
their husbands completely because they prefer to have a husband clean
from hairs, thus they will look more smarter, attractive & younger.
Who doesn't want to have a husband who always looks very smart, attractive & young? Do you?
Also
western society does not mind whom you choose to marry. In western
world society does less interference in your business of living
life. Individualism is dominant over socialism. Every of your acts is
decided by you and for your own life, & that is without considering
what your society will say about your act. You are happy, that's
enough.
Thus
baldness is not a reason for rejection of you from marriage in western
world . Are you compatible with your partner or not and that is the
main reason, and that's why pairs spend many months or years in a live-in
relationship before taking a final decision of marrying with a live-in
partner.
Head without hairs, nevertheless, it is now a fashion style.
Many
kids & young guys shave their hairs on the sides of their heads
keeping small or big hairs at the center of their heads. Even a few girls
apply this fashion on their heads to give a different look & show
the adaption of the modern style.
Not
only in western world , this fashion is popular in every continent,
even we find it in many traditional countries including India.
In India, it is famous that a bald person is always a rich person. Bald people are lucky in earnings whether it is money or property or business.
But
unfortunately it is an acceptable & real fact that they face more
challenges in finding a partner to get married than others who are not
bald.
It
is very similar as a girl & her parents give preference in
selection to those grooms who have government jobs, even the groom is
working in a position of a peon.
A
government job holder groom is always on top of everything including
the girl will avoid his baldness & accept to marry & become
bride.
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Parents
avoid choosing a bald person considering what their society
or invited relatives of the family say when they see a bald groom in a
marriage ceremony. This can hurt the prestige of the family in society.
The ego, reputation and prestige of the family is more
important than anything else.
Many
guys suffering from hair loss don't care about losing their hair. But they lose
their self-esteem & self-confidence when they become bald &
several girls reject them for dating or marriage. Many of them start to
suffer with anxiety &, at last, enter a stage of depression which
is worse for health.
You can question the above statement but you are now in your 40s or 50s & loose hairs or become bald at this age. Maturity makes anyone more mentally strong to face comments & rejections.
Is
there any treatment for baldness? Several treatments are available in
the market of clinical practice. You can find several clinics
specialized for curing baldness. On the internet tons of such clinics and
their offers of treatment are available. Maybe you can find one near-by
to your house .
Turkey
is a popular destination for treating baldness. The hair treatment
clinics provide treatments at affordable prices, therefore,
many people visit Turkey only for hair loss treatment. In Western
countries the hair loss treatments are very costly & in Asian
countries the baldness treatments are much cheaper & affordable.
Now the question is on whether you need or not need the hair loss treatments. This depends totally on personal decision.
If
you read thoroughly the terms & conditions of the hair loss
treatments providers, you come to know that there is no guarantee of a
stable recuperation of your hairs as you have them naturally. You have
to provide special care to your hairs grown on treatments. In the case of
natural hair, we normally don't care about our hair.
Clinics use different treatments and procedures for hair loss.
If
the roots of the hairs are still alive inside of the tiny holes on the skin of
head, a surgical or laser treatment to stimulate these roots to grow
again into full hairs is sufficient to recover from baldness.
A
capillary inspection by a professional decides if the hair roots are alive
or dead. If you are bald for a long time, then probability is very less
that the hair roots are alive. Mostly hair roots are dead on bald
heads.
If the hair roots are dead, then the
hairs of other parts of the body such as chest, thigh etc are removed
with roots and these hairs are transplanted on the bald head.
Sometimes
the hair roots are only seeded inside capillaries of the skin of the
head, then further treatments with drugs stimulate the growth of hairs
from the transplanted hair roots.
Pain, inflammation & infection are few challenges with hair transplants & need appropriate medicines .
Nevertheless,
hair transplantation is not a permanent solution for baldness. Sooner or
later you may again face hair loss problems.
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