Why Does No One Care About Me?

I am little bit sad today on day of Sunday at 9 pm evening time & feel that no one cares about me. Really, no one cares me? This is my perception. I live alone in my flat. No one comes to visit me except when I organize an Indian style lunch & invite 4-5 friends which I have from last 15 years. Rest of peoples give me the perception of being my friends but I cannot avoid a reality of I meet them once in 3-4 months. Most of times I call them to retain our communications, thus, our friendship. I can say mostly my friends don't call me but I call them over WhatsApp, and sometimes over direct phone call although I have to pay cost of the call. No problem. I have a job so I can bear the cost in the current economic situation of mine. I am not worry about local call cost because mostly they are a free service, but international phone calls have a cost. Nevertheless, I have a very clear principle or mindset: Don't wait for any one calls you, you do a phone call because as you hesitate to do a phone call, maybe other one is also hesitating to do a phone call, so why not your break this ice of hesitation by doing a phone 🤙 call. Mostly I do phone calls to my friends & family without hesitation because I know they will not🤙 call me due to their engagements in other priorities. Is it no one cares about me? If it does happen in your life, you can ✍️ write your situation in comment section or can email me your story. Maybe we will include it in this article. 

Today is Sunday and now is  evening time & I am feeling sad. I succeed to keep myself busy whole day. In morning 🌅🌄 I went to look marathon run in the center of city & took several good video clips & photos of runners with keeping our city buity in background. You can see those videos & photos by visiting Media Maratón de Valladolid playlist of your YouTube channel. Then I ate my lunch, again I worked with video clips & photos, then I decided to read an article to prepare a report (oficial work). But at 9 pm evening time I started to feel sad because I did not talk with anyone whole day & no one even called me over phone in whole day for asking me how I am or can we go for beer? Maybe, you say I am crezy & I am passing the limit. But this happened today. Few of my friends they say they like to stay at home 🏠🏡 alone in silence 🤐 without any interference, and others say they don't have anyone to pass their time (Lack of life partner). Moreover, I don't do such complaint because I am living in alone from 2003 that means more than 20 years has already passed of my fight with my loneliness. I always have won this big fight which is a fight of my mind with my situation of being alone or my loneliness. 

Sometimes situation proceeds to be worst like today it becomes little bit worst at last in the evening time when my loneliness becomes dominant over my brain which was busy whole day in realizing some tasks; marathon visit, video & photo editing, food, article review report etc. This is a human psychology. No one knows when it will change. In a minute you feel happy 😁😊 but you feel sad in a nex minute. But there are tricks which we have to learn & apply on ourselves, otherwise, you are deteriorating your brain, your health, your psychology, your thoughts, & you become sufferer of quick nervous breakdown & several diseases, and some may become severe & cronic. You will forget how to smile. There is no smile on your face that means you will have a serious & sad face which represents you like you are ill. I have already experimented it with me. My face sometimes looks like very sad, serious & without smile, but normally no. Moreover, under psychological impact, any thing can happen. Negative thoughts 💬 💭 can enter in your mind & make their house🏠🏡 in your brain. Your brain starts to host the negative thoughts & nurish them. One day these nurished negative thoughts start to give births of fruits that means you become engaged in dangerous & severe conflicts that wouldn't allow you to sleep in relax mood keeping your mind shutdown for everything (deep sleep), thus, no thoughts during sleeping time 💤😴. Is it your condition? You can share it with readers of this article. 

I hope you are taking notes for what do you have to do & what do you have not to do to avoid a thinking that no one cares about you. 

Of course, you are not only one person alone who thinks that "No one cares about me". Millions of people are in same situation. See, maybe, my case is similar to your case. But I am using a trick to avoid thinking 🤔 that no one cares about me. Which trick I am using right now? Can you imagine? Before reading following parts of this article, it is good for you to think the trick which I am using right now to avoid the dominance of negative thoughts over my mind & feel psychology fit. Guess & write ✍️ in comment section. 

I was happy 😊😁 whole day today but at evening 9 pm I felt no one cares about me. To avoid this negative & psychologically effective thought, I have started to write ✍️ this article. Why this negative thought entered in my mind? Because I was totally alone whole day of Sunday, more precisely I can say this weekend. Last Sunday I was on 16 km trekking on a mountain with 30 peoples. But this Sunday there was no physical contact with human. You don't get confused with physical contact is only sexual contact. I know many people think if someone says physical contact, the person is referring a sexual relation. I am sorry. In my dictionary, a physical contact is to spend time with a human such as going for lunch or dinner, taking beer together, watching movie together or shopping 🛒🛍️, bicycling, to go together on walking, there are many activities that are also under physical contact. I hope you understand what do I mean. You can write in your notebook what to do when you feel that no one cares about you. 

This article is not finished. I will keep writing my opinions. But as I said previously, you can share your experience & thoughts to publish it with this article. 

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